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Does Limerence Ever Go Away?
One of the most common questions people ask when they find themselves in limerence is whether it will ever end. The intensity of longing,...

Orly Miller
51 minutes ago2 min read
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How Limerence Impacts Daily Functioning
Limerence is not just an internal experience of longing and obsession, it has a way of spilling into daily life in ways that are often...

Orly Miller
2 days ago2 min read
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Living with Someone in Limerence: What You Need to Know
When someone you love is caught in limerence, the experience can be confusing, painful, and at times overwhelming. You may notice that...

Orly Miller
Nov 272 min read
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The Stages of Limerence
Limerence often unfolds in a way that feels both irresistible and bewildering. It begins with a spark, a sudden awareness of someone who...

Orly Miller
Nov 252 min read
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Finding Balance After a Breakup
A breakup can feel like the ground has been pulled from beneath you. Even when the ending is mutual or necessary, the loss reverberates...

Orly Miller
Nov 202 min read
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How Long Does Limerence Last?
One of the most common questions people ask about limerence is how long it lasts. The intensity of the experience can feel unbearable at...

Orly Miller
Nov 182 min read
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Mind-Body Connection in Healing Anxiety
Anxiety is often felt as racing thoughts, but it is just as much a physical experience as a mental one. The mind and body are woven...

Orly Miller
Nov 132 min read
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Why Limerence Feels Like Destiny
Limerence can feel unlike anything else. The intensity, the sense of recognition, the pull toward one particular person can make it seem...

Orly Miller
Nov 112 min read
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The Role of Vulnerability in Building Lasting Love
Lasting love does not come from perfection. It comes from the willingness to be seen. Vulnerability is the doorway through which intimacy...

Orly Miller
Nov 62 min read
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How to Break Free from Intrusive Thoughts in Limerence
One of the most painful aspects of limerence is the constant flood of intrusive thoughts. The mind circles around the same person,...

Orly Miller
Nov 42 min read
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Recognising Limerence as a Clinical Condition
Limerence is often spoken about in casual terms, as though it were just another word for infatuation or romantic obsession. But for those...

Orly Miller
Oct 302 min read
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Why Limerence Feels Addictive
Many people who experience limerence describe it as feeling addictive. The pull toward the other person can seem irresistible, and the...

Orly Miller
Oct 282 min read
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The Pull of Emotional Unavailability in Limerence
One of the most striking patterns in limerence is how often it attaches to people who are emotionally unavailable. At first this can feel...

Orly Miller
Oct 232 min read
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Managing Anxiety in Relationships
Anxiety in relationships can feel like a quiet hum in the background or like a storm that takes over everything. It might show up as...

Orly Miller
Oct 212 min read
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The Science of Obsession: What the Brain Does in Limerence
Limerence is not just a feeling. It is a biochemical dance inside the brain that pulls us into longing, hope, and turmoil. When we think...

Orly Miller
Oct 162 min read
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How Therapy Builds Secure Attachment After Heartbreak
Heartbreak has a way of shaking the foundations of how we relate to ourselves and to others. When a relationship ends, especially one...

Orly Miller
Oct 142 min read
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Why Boundaries Matter in Healing from Limerence
When caught in limerence, it can feel as if boundaries are impossible to hold. The longing for connection and the fear of losing the...

Orly Miller
Oct 92 min read
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The Role of Fantasy in Limerence
Fantasy plays a central role in limerence. When we become absorbed in the intensity of longing for another person, the mind often turns...

Orly Miller
Oct 73 min read
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Can Limerence End Naturally?
Limerence is often experienced as overwhelming and all-consuming, which can make it feel permanent. When someone is caught in the cycle...

Orly Miller
Oct 53 min read
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What Makes Limerence Different from Love?
Limerence and love can look and feel remarkably similar on the surface. Both can sweep us up in intensity, heighten our senses, and make...

Orly Miller
Sep 302 min read
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