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Starting the New Year with Clarity and Hope
The turn of the year often brings a chance to reset. We look back at what we have learned, what felt heavy, and what our hearts truly...

Orly Miller
Jan 22 min read


Why I Wrote a Book About Limerence
Publishing Limerence: The Psychopathology of Loving Too Much has been one of the most meaningful projects of my career, and today I want...

Orly Miller
Dec 25, 20252 min read


My New Book on Limerence: The Psychopathology of Loving Too Much - Out Today!!!
Today is a very special day. My book Limerence: The Psychopathology of Loving Too Much has just been released by Routledge. Writing this...

Orly Miller
Dec 23, 20252 min read


Why the New Year Is the Right Time to Let Go of Limerence
The transition into a new year often brings a natural pause. It is a moment when many people reflect on the past and consider how they...

Orly Miller
Dec 18, 20252 min read


Coping with Limerence and Relationship Anxiety During the Holidays
The holiday season can be both joyful and overwhelming. For many people, it is a time filled with gatherings, expectations, and emotional...

Orly Miller
Dec 16, 20252 min read


How to Heal After Limerence Ends
When limerence finally begins to ease, it can feel like stepping out of an altered state of mind. The constant preoccupation with one...

Orly Miller
Dec 11, 20252 min read


Living with Obsessive Love: When Longing Takes Over Daily Life
Limerence is often described as obsessive love because it does not stay contained within private thoughts or fleeting moments of...

Orly Miller
Dec 9, 20252 min read


Does Limerence Ever Go Away?
One of the most common questions people ask when they find themselves in limerence is whether it will ever end. The intensity of longing,...

Orly Miller
Dec 4, 20252 min read


How Limerence Impacts Daily Functioning
Limerence is not just an internal experience of longing and obsession, it has a way of spilling into daily life in ways that are often...

Orly Miller
Dec 2, 20252 min read


Living with Someone in Limerence: What You Need to Know
When someone you love is caught in limerence, the experience can be confusing, painful, and at times overwhelming. You may notice that...

Orly Miller
Nov 27, 20252 min read


The Stages of Limerence
Limerence often unfolds in a way that feels both irresistible and bewildering. It begins with a spark, a sudden awareness of someone who...

Orly Miller
Nov 25, 20252 min read


Finding Balance After a Breakup
A breakup can feel like the ground has been pulled from beneath you. Even when the ending is mutual or necessary, the loss reverberates...

Orly Miller
Nov 20, 20252 min read


How Long Does Limerence Last?
One of the most common questions people ask about limerence is how long it lasts. The intensity of the experience can feel unbearable at...

Orly Miller
Nov 18, 20252 min read


Mind-Body Connection in Healing Anxiety
Anxiety is often felt as racing thoughts, but it is just as much a physical experience as a mental one. The mind and body are woven...

Orly Miller
Nov 13, 20252 min read


Why Limerence Feels Like Destiny
Limerence can feel unlike anything else. The intensity, the sense of recognition, the pull toward one particular person can make it seem...

Orly Miller
Nov 11, 20252 min read


The Role of Vulnerability in Building Lasting Love
Lasting love does not come from perfection. It comes from the willingness to be seen. Vulnerability is the doorway through which intimacy...

Orly Miller
Nov 6, 20252 min read


How to Break Free from Intrusive Thoughts in Limerence
One of the most painful aspects of limerence is the constant flood of intrusive thoughts. The mind circles around the same person,...

Orly Miller
Nov 4, 20252 min read


Recognising Limerence as a Clinical Condition
Limerence is often spoken about in casual terms, as though it were just another word for infatuation or romantic obsession. But for those...

Orly Miller
Oct 30, 20252 min read


Why Limerence Feels Addictive
Many people who experience limerence describe it as feeling addictive. The pull toward the other person can seem irresistible, and the...

Orly Miller
Oct 28, 20252 min read


The Pull of Emotional Unavailability in Limerence
One of the most striking patterns in limerence is how often it attaches to people who are emotionally unavailable. At first this can feel...

Orly Miller
Oct 23, 20252 min read
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