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Managing Anxiety in Relationships
Anxiety in relationships can feel like a quiet hum in the background or like a storm that takes over everything. It might show up as...

Orly Miller
Oct 21, 20252 min read
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The Science of Obsession: What the Brain Does in Limerence
Limerence is not just a feeling. It is a biochemical dance inside the brain that pulls us into longing, hope, and turmoil. When we think...

Orly Miller
Oct 16, 20252 min read
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How Therapy Builds Secure Attachment After Heartbreak
Heartbreak has a way of shaking the foundations of how we relate to ourselves and to others. When a relationship ends, especially one...

Orly Miller
Oct 14, 20252 min read
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Why Boundaries Matter in Healing from Limerence
When caught in limerence, it can feel as if boundaries are impossible to hold. The longing for connection and the fear of losing the...

Orly Miller
Oct 9, 20252 min read
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The Role of Fantasy in Limerence
Fantasy plays a central role in limerence. When we become absorbed in the intensity of longing for another person, the mind often turns...

Orly Miller
Oct 7, 20253 min read
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Can Limerence End Naturally?
Limerence is often experienced as overwhelming and all-consuming, which can make it feel permanent. When someone is caught in the cycle...

Orly Miller
Oct 5, 20253 min read
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What Makes Limerence Different from Love?
Limerence and love can look and feel remarkably similar on the surface. Both can sweep us up in intensity, heighten our senses, and make...

Orly Miller
Sep 30, 20252 min read
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Understanding Narcissism: Recognising the Signs and Impact in Relationships
Narcissism is a term often used in everyday conversation, but it is a concept that can be complex and misunderstood. It is more than just...

Orly Miller
Sep 25, 20253 min read
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The Power of Mirroring in Relationships: How It Shapes Connection and Trust
Have you ever felt an instant bond with someone after just a few moments of conversation? You might have noticed that you share similar...

Orly Miller
Sep 23, 20254 min read
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Achieving Flow State: How Therapy Can Help You Reach Your Full Potential
Have you ever been completely immersed in an activity, where time seemed to disappear, and everything you did felt effortless and...

Orly Miller
Sep 18, 20253 min read
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Understanding Emotional Flooding in Relationships and How Therapy Can Help
Emotional flooding is a term often used in relationship therapy to describe the intense, overwhelming rush of emotions that can occur...

Orly Miller
Sep 16, 20252 min read
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The Loneliness Epidemic: How Therapy Can Help You Reconnect
Loneliness is often described as an invisible ache, a sense of being disconnected even when surrounded by others. In a world that is more...

Orly Miller
Sep 11, 20251 min read
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Setting Boundaries Without Guilt: How Therapy Can Help
Setting boundaries is an essential part of healthy relationships, but for many people it brings up a wave of guilt, fear, or self-doubt....

Orly Miller
Sep 9, 20251 min read
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How Therapy Can Help Highly Sensitive People Thrive
Being a highly sensitive person can feel like living with the volume of life turned all the way up. Small things that others brush off...

Orly Miller
Sep 4, 20252 min read
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The Benefits of Seeking Therapy Before a Crisis
In our culture, there is often an unspoken belief that therapy is only for moments of crisis. People sometimes feel they need to be at...

Orly Miller
Sep 2, 20253 min read
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The Link Between Perfectionism and Anxiety (And How Therapy Helps)
Perfectionism often hides beneath the surface of anxiety, quietly fuelling self-criticism, fear of failure, and a constant sense of...

Orly Miller
Aug 28, 20253 min read
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What Happens in Therapy for Anxiety: A Step-by-Step Overview
Starting therapy for anxiety can feel both hopeful and daunting. Many people wonder what actually happens in a therapy session and how...

Orly Miller
Aug 26, 20253 min read
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Signs of Emotional Neglect in Childhood and How They Impact Adult Relationships
Emotional neglect in childhood can be difficult to recognise because it often leaves invisible wounds. Unlike more obvious forms of...

Orly Miller
Aug 21, 20253 min read
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Preorders Now Open for Limerence: The Psychopathology of Loving Too Much
My new book Limerence: The Psychopathology of Loving Too Much is now available for preorder. This book explores obsessive love, limerence, and the hidden psychology behind longing, fixation, and emotional dependency. A must-read for anyone interested in relationships, therapy, and the science of love.

Orly Miller
Aug 19, 20252 min read
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How Therapy Helps Break Patterns of Self-Sabotage
Self-sabotage can feel like a frustrating mystery. You may have clear goals, good intentions, and a strong desire to move forward, yet...

Orly Miller
Aug 19, 20253 min read
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